urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:koko_kawaii searching for the right bubble to float by me~ koko_kawaii 2009-08-12T20:39:30Z urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:koko_kawaii:8414 2009-08-12T20:39:30Z 2009-08-12T20:39:30Z Leona Lewis - "Loving you" <div class='appwidget appwidget-qotd' id='LJWidget_4'> <table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tr><td><div style='border: 1px solid #000; padding: 6px;'><p>After a break-up, do you try to remain friends with your former flame? Does it work?</p><p style='font-size: 0.8em;'></p><br /><p><input type="button" value="Answer" onclick="document.location.href='http://www.livejournal.com/update.bml?qotd=995'" /> <a target="_blank" href="http://www.livejournal.com/misc/latestqotd.bml?qid=995">View 501 Answers</a></p></div></td></tr></table></div><!-- end .appwidget-qotd --> I think it can work when you both settle down and just be plain honest to one another. but without honesty in a relationship, how can a friendship work? but I think I can be friends with the person I breakup. just it depends on who and what occurred during the breakup. but that's just me ^^; I don't feel people should have a grudge against one another. but.. *BUT* if it causes to much suffering to oneself its best to just leave things as it is---and I guess the grudge will always be there. but it will pass as time comes ^_^